Hello,parents, schools right now are on holiday and we have our children right home. Some of us have the holidays planned out;music school, dance classes,camp, cooking classes etc.
I have mentioned plenty but there are still some we probably over look because we think they are not important! It is always an plus to every parent when their child gains the admiration of other parents and peers due to social grace observed at the right time.
Children grow very fast and before you would say jack! That tiny tweeny adorable baby of yesterday has grown into an awkward teen. So the earlier we teach them,the better it helps them then into graceful adults.
Today, we are going to talk about eating habits:
- This first rule is VERY important and has to be over emphasised; always wash your hands before and after every meal.
- Always make sure you are seated when eating;due to their nature,they tend to be impatient with every thing. So be firm in teaching them how to seat for some minutes when its time to eat!
- Don't talk loudly at the dinner table.
- If you are eating on the dinning with other family members; wait till everyone is serves their meal before you start eating.
- Don't slouch on the dinner table, it makes you look less graceful. Sit upright as it also helps your backbone.
- If you need something ask the nearest person to get it for you. If it is at the far end;you observe the 60 degree rule which is passing on to the next person until it gets to you!
- Don't talk with food in your mouth;always swallow before talking.
- Chew with your mouth closed and keep your lips together. You don't want food debris flying around!
- If you have to get up during meal;politely ask to be excused and return as soon as possible.
- Food fights are not allowed on the dinner table,if you are okay just say so.
- Take the food on your spoon or fork to your mouth not the other way round. This helps to reduce occasional spills.
- In between eating,rest your fork and knife on the plate in the upside down 'v'.
- If need be, try to use your fork and knife, and while cutting your food do your best to keep your elbows by your side.
- When you are done with your meal, place your fork and knife to the right side with the blade in and fork in the upward position. This let's everyone know you are done with the meal!
- Parents know that your children learn by observation! Don't just be a talker; you also can learn from this. As the old saying goes" charity begins at home".
Hope this was helpful? See ya on my next episode.
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